♥ Sunday, August 25, 2013 @ 8/25/2013
What are YOUR requirements/ideal type?
So i came across reading a pretty famous blog, and saw her post on this topic, hence i stop and ponder a little too, everyone has this own "target/requirements/ideal" type for your own partner. ADMIT IT! LOL
I guess most of you would say i wan a rich dude, or i wish my babe has sexy body like a Z cup or something, cute voice like Y 头 or 蝴蝶姐姐, or a person who knows how to love and take care of me and etc..
Hmm so i think my partner HAS to be taller than me because its a little bit weird if i am walking with somebody shorter than me, big broad shoulder for me to lie on and smelling good would definitely be a plus point but does not smell overly nice like too much perfume that i cannot stand and end up keep sneezing; nor heavy smoker that even from a distance you can smell it, i have a sensitive nose pardon me haha, or at least doesn't smell bad, does not have to be too good looking but look compatible or older than me as i already have a 'chao lao face' i don't wish people to see me as i am with my brother on the street.
Someone who is more mature than me, be it in relationship and things and somebody to lead me, erm if you realize i am still a bit childish at times, but i do have mature times k LOL best is will play or joke with me sometimes not so serious all the time or it will be boring like dating my daddy or teacher...
That's not the end hahah i would NOT date someone who always sweet talk to girls like "You are my sweetest love" ya one of your sweetest?! and someone who is very rich is not really for me because he might get you a lot of things you like and at the same time do the same to other girls. BUT cannot be stingy with me like every single thing is calculative, and of course i will feel bad if i were to let someone pay for me all the times, so i will end with buying gifts for my partner for me to feel less guilty or maybe next time i shall pay the bill first haha, but guys just want face so much sometimes LOL.
It may sound cliche but is true that... In a relationship, the most important thing i seek for is faithfulness and honesty, although i am a possessive and easy insecure girl because i have low self esteem and gets jealous easily, but i still hope transparency in it, that you will still tell me even you know i will get mad and stuff, it is really better that i found the truth myself aftermath, i believe most of most of you would not like this to happen to yourself too isnt it? so treat your partner the way you want them to treat you! treasure them when they are in front of you, because when you are growing older there will be more work load and stuff and have lesser time to spend together T.T
But my friends was saying there is a honeymoon period was the first 4 to 6 months when two person started falling in love, days spend together are full of laughter, then slowly you will be more aware of each others flaw that's the time you have to learn to love their bad or at least tolerate it, then will be everyday life activity which will not be so happening because you already know them so well, but NO! Love don't have expiry date, so don't let yourself have negative thoughts, i admit sometimes i will because i am not those kind of positive people, or maybe because i am a greedy person or perfectionist which i wish to receive more and more love..
Lastly, which is also the most important things he has to love me, i believe you would not want to date somebody that doesn't love you right, someone who knows how to take care of himself, so will be able to take care of me as i fall sick quite often.. hmm and loves his family and filial to his parent, i believe if he is to his parent, so of course to mine will be same i hope. And family approval, without it is really stressed for one party i guess..
Four big paragraphs? is that a lot of requirements? Opps but seems like i have not listed enough but above are the big main points.. I guess i am not so picky nor asking too much after all?
I think most that i have listed above is like describing K. Thanks fate for letting us to meet and really lucky that he fulfill most of the list what more can i ask for? to be able to being myself and a person who manage to tolerate all my nonsense and irrational logic and my fats hahaha and still loves me dearly.. really blessed.
So what are YOUR ideal type?
